How to Make Him Fall in Love
Learn how to make fall in love with a few minor behavioral changes, as well as one or two lifestyle changes. Most women have an idea what works in attracting men, but that's based on their own limited experience. It's possible there are better ways to romance the men in their lives, but the old tactics have worked well enough in the past.
But when you want to make a man fall in love with you, is "good enough" really good enough?
You have to take special steps when the subject of love and romance come into play. This is more than getting a guy to ask you out on a date, or getting a guy to take you out on the dance floor. This is getting inside his thoughts and haunting him day and night. You're looking to bewitch him with thoughts of you.
So making a man fall for you requires specific methods - methods you may not have used in the past.
Be Confident in Yourself
Be sure of yourself, or at least appear to be sure of yourself. This doesn't mean to be cocky or to hide your vulnerability with sarcasm and attacks on a man's masculinity. It means to have an aura of self-assurance. You know what you want and what you like and no one's opinion is going to change that.
If this is hard for you, fake it until the facade becomes a reality. Most men prefer a confident woman to a docile woman who simply goes along with whatever.
It's been said before about women, no doubt by some male, that they seek either a father or a son, when they look for a mate. That is, they either want a man who can take care of them, or a man they can take care take of.
I think the same thing can be said of men: they want a mother or a daughter. A man wants a woman who will take care of his every need and baby him, or a woman who needs him to take care of her. So ask yourself: do you want to be a mother or a daughter? The mother is the confident one, in case you're wondering.
Be Where He is
This may require you stepping into "his world" for a while, but be where he's at. The more he's around you, the better he'll get to know you and the more comfortable he'll be around you. Eventually, he's going to notice how great you are.
This means you might have to "do guy things" for a while, or be one of the guys. That's not such a bad thing. You'll find certain things to enjoy about his life, so when the two of you are together, you'll have things in common. Sure, some of them you'll find obnoxious or senseless, but these are things he can either ditch later, or do with the guys. The idea is you're finding common ground and growing closer.
If you find you have absolutely no common ground and you hate everything about his world, the two of you might not be compatible. While they say opposites attract, consider dropping it altogether.
Keep It at a Low Dosage
Dosage is key. Once he starts to notice you, tantalize him by restricting the amount of time around you. As they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder and familiarity breeds contempt. Less is more.
If a man enjoys a certain meal, he tends to grow tired of it, if he eats it several times a week. But if he only has it a couple of times a month, he'll savor the taste more, and crave it longer. You want to be that good meal in his life.
Soon, he'll find that he's thinking about you when you're not there. That's when you start to make him fall in love with you.
Take Care of Yourself
This is rather all-encompassing. Try to keep yourself in shape by going to the gym. This gives you more energy and keeps you toned.
One reason we have standards of beauty is that, traditionally, a certain shape tends to mean better health. While a fit person can die at 40 and an out-of-shape person can die at twice that age, being fit and healthy is life-affirming - and that's attractive.
Another corollary to "taking care of yourself" is trying to look your best. "Looking your best" means taking your natural beauty and making the most of it. Wear nice clothes, have stylish hair and smell attractive.
Whatever traits God gave you, whether you're a rare beauty, an indifferent beauty or...not-so indifferent, you can still look your best. As the father of an old friend used to say, play with the cards God dealt you.
Eye Contact
They say the eyes are the window to the soul, and it's true. You can learn a lot about a person's true thoughts, simply by following their eyes. Also, if you remain conscious of the signals your eyes are sending, you can send a lot of message with nothing more than your eyes. This is body language we're talking about.
No joke - studies show that people in love look at one another more often. By holding his gaze a little longer, you send a love signal. More important for your goal of making him fall in love with you, this tactic means he's likely to stare at you just a moment longer, and he might start to think he's in love, too.
Make Him Feel Special
A lot of women try to get the guy to chase them by making them jealous, flirting with other guys or, even worse, his friends. For the most part, that's a huge turnoff for guys. There are some that are so competitive that they want to have you at any cost, but most self-respecting guys are turned off by seeing you flirt with every male who walks by.
Instead, make him feel special by only having eyes for him. That's much more charming and alluring.
Here's the question: when he thinks of you, do you want those thoughts filled with what he perceives as positives ideas, or negative ones?
It's all about attracting a bee with honey, not vinegar. Learn how to make him fall in love by ushering him into a world of magic, a world built only for two. Whisper in his ear as if the two of you have a secret. Drop him little one-sentence notes with a shared joke. Caress him ever so gently when you speak to him, but do that for no one else.
This makes a guy feel special. If he's into you at all, he'll be really into you.
How to Make a Man Love You
Those are the best techniques for how to make a man love you. All men are a little bit different, with their own likes and dislikes, their own past and their specific "baggage". That means no technique works perfectly, but if you want the best chance of making a man fall in love with you, play the odds and do so with positivity, smarts and that special touch.